Sunday, February 28, 2010

Choices.

I met with the neurosurgeon on Friday. He was really great, answered my many questions and reassured me that they do this type of surgery all the time. I felt so much calmer after talking to him and becoming more informed. He also gave us a choice to do the surgery one of two ways.

1. Endoscopic surgery, which is less invasive, has less scaring and blood loss and a faster recovery time. It is a relatively new procedure and this doctor has only done it 15 times, total. The downside to doing it this way is the surgeon can not see everything as well and it takes much longer to see results. Everett would have to wear a helmet 23 hours a day for a year.

2. Open surgery. In this procedure, they make an incision from one ear to the other and pull the scalp back to cut out the fused skull bone. Surgery is longer, more of a chance of blood transfusion, and a longer recovery time. But, results are immediate, so if he had to wear a helmet at all, it would not be for long. Plus the surgeon can see everything better during surgery.

The surgeon is leaving the decision up to us, which means we will be praying like crazy to feel peace with our decision. He also wants to do the surgery in the next week or two. The earlier the better. In fact they can really only do the endoscopic surgery until he is 3 months old. But he said Everett looks really healthy, and he has "really great tone for a baby his age". Meaning he is not a sloppy baby and has no signs of any of the genetic diseases that often accompany craniosynostosis. Also, his coronal sutures have not fused, so all in all it was a positive meeting!

Here are some pictures of Everetts head. His brain can not grow out, so it is growing front to back. It is textbook sagittal synostosis head:).





I love this picture with his cute little eye peeking out.

11 comments:

  1. What a decision to have to make! I will praying for you to have peace as you move forward with whatever you decide. We love you guys!

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  2. Oh Alisa!!! This will only make you stronger right? I mean of coarse it will but that is what you have to keep reminding yourself! Do you have family near? You your ward family will help! Especially me.

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  3. So glad you are doing this blog. We love you all and I, too, love the picture of Everett peeking over the hand! We'll be there when you need us!

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  4. We are praying for you guys and with you. I wish we were closer so that we could be more helpful. We want to help and will be there as quickly as you need us

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  5. Oh, Alisa! Weren't we just talking about things going 'too well'... What a challenge for your poor mama heart! I will be following your journey closely and praying with all my heart that things go smoothly. I wish I could be there to repay you for all your earlier kindness and love -- just know that I'm sending oodles of good vibes your way, and we love your family to pieces!

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  6. Oh wow, you're definetly in our prayers. I remember Kelli had to take Kyden in for surgery just weeks after he was born. Its a tough thing to watch your baby go through this but, it'll all be worth it. We love you!

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  7. What a beautiful boy, and how precious these children are to the Lord. You'll be in our prayers.

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  8. Oh Matt and Alisa!!!! My heart is going out to you!!! We love you and will keep you in our prayers --- Love Aunt Shirlene

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  9. Sweet little boy! Oh, these challenges. May you be strengthened each day. I wish we were closer to help with the others. You'll be in our prayers. What a blessing to live in a time when there are not only doctors who can diagnose the problem, but also fix it. Take care and keep us posted.

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  10. We love you guys! We'll be keeping you in our thoughts and hearts!

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  11. We are praying for you and your family. You are an inspiration. EK

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